Saturday, December 31, 2011

I feel weird about my friend paying for everything?

I have this best friend who i've been BFF's with for YEARS... We have always been normal people financially, both in college, working and doing the normal thing until we finished school. Well she got married last year and her husband happens to have a TON of money... so in the past year a lot has changed obviously... the lifestyle she knew is totally gone.. she is now spending money on whatever she wants and driving 100 thousand dollar cars... and its just strange for me to this see... so keep with me... everytime i go visit her she pays for EVERYTHING... but keep in mind the stuff we are doing is extravagant and unlike what we used to do before. the whole relationship is the same but the stuff we are doing/spending is different. i am not comfortable with her paying for me, especially when its REALLY expensive. i have not said anything yet she has not said anything to me either .. like " hey i know we are always paying for you please dont think anything of it, we just want to take care of you" or anything... so i just feel REALLY freakin weird abuout it. I feel like relationships should be give and take and thats just not the case right now. Basically I am wondering.. should it alk to her about this or am i just being weird???

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