Hubby just diagnosed as bi-polar, im not coping either!?

Hello mrsmixed, WOW! First, I would suggest looking in the phone-book under "Mental Health/Crisis/Support Groups" etc...I have a schizophrenic/bi-polar son, and it's very difficult from time to time. However, calling the mental health crisis line in my area and just talking to someone for a few minutes helped me a lot. They put me in touch with a great support group (it was actually a 6 month long cl), and I was able to learn so much about his illness, and meet people dealing with similar issues. One of the hardest parts about mental disorders (IMO) is getting the person to a good doctor and getting the right meds. The second is making that person actually "take" their meds. Once the person starts feeling better, they think they don't need them anymore (this is my situation). I think going back and forth to him isn't helping the situation at all. I would suggest telling him if he gets treatment, good meds etc...and continues to improve, that you are willing to move forward "slowly" in regards to rebuilding your relationship. A marriage counselor/therapist may be an option as well. Keep your spirits up! Maybe you could get some "spiritual" advice from your church. Your not alone, and it will take time and patience. OXXO Moon-child